I make life decisions on a daily basis. Do I ever fail? ABSOLUTELY!! Why? Because I am HUMAN. But the difference is I don't hide it. I don't pretend to be the perfect person in the world and I don't pretend to be something that I am not. I'm just me and that's all I have to offer you. I'm not going to spend all kinds of money with some great "Sells Pitch" on why I am the perfect coach to add to your life. If you're looking for perfect, I'm not it, not by a long shot. I have failed, I have made mistakes, I have even given up at times myself, AND I have had to pull myself back up! Other people can be there to support you, they can even throw you a life line. But YOU are the only one that can actually pull yourself up out of whatever it is your going through.
No matter how many imperfections I may have, I am the perfect person for me, I am the perfect person for my husband, I am the perfect person for my children and for my family. See for me, thats all that matters. It doesn't matter what other people think because they probably could not last a day in my imperfect shoes. Yet, the world is so opinionated and it really fathoms me because they have never met you a day in their life, yet they have judgement, criticism, and so many opinions that add absolutely no value to your life what's so ever. So tell me, why do they even matter again?
I'm 48 years young and I would not change a single thing about my life. Because all of the decisions led me to right where I am today. If I changed or altered anything in my life, that will cause me to have a different life and different love ones. That is not an option for me because I love those closest to me. Are they perfect, NOPE. But then again, neither am I. So when I hear people saying I wish I could go back in time and do things differently, well all I wish is that I can get this life right and continue on the path set before me. At the end of the day, our plans are not really ours....we are living a life that is already planned out for us. The day we are born, the day we fall in love, the day we get married, the day we have children and sadly, the day we die.
My promise to you...is to always be honest. To let you know that I am here for you and to help you hold yourself accountable. I offer my 27yrs of professional experience of teaming with others, mentoring others and guiding others. I also promise you that I will not sugar coat things just because your in your feelings about something. If I feel like I cannot help you, I promise I will tell you. I don't like wasting my time so I definitely do not want to waste yours.
My mother always told me I had the gift of gab...little did she know that my voice would be a talent to help and guide others. So whether you're going through tough life choices, trouble in the work field, relationship issues, or just down on your luck, I am here to listen and team up with you to make sense of it all and to help you become a better version of yourself.
In my opinion, this is what makes a good coach. Someone real, someone you can relate to and someone that has been through the ups and downs of life. I've been through so much in my life and I overcame it and I am still overcoming it. I don't hide my story and I don't blast it on social media either. But, I do share it, all the time. Because it's my testimony. I hope to be able to share it with you one day. Until then....stay strong, keep your head up and never give up.